‘Why Is It So Easy For Men To Cheat?’
Me and the man I regarded as the perfect man for me have been dating for the past five years. Before now, we were very perfect. He treated me like gold, and he took very good care of me and tried to provide almost everything I needed even though we know that human wants are insatiable.
But the major problem in our relationship was that he never initiated sex; most of the time I had to make the move. Even if it was boring when we do, it I try to spice it up.
I still enjoyed it because I really loved him so much, and I thought he did love me so much too. For two years I tried to live with it because he made me believe each time I talked to him about it, that he was very busy considering the fact that he just got a new job and that he had a target he had to meet up with.
I understood and vowed to help him achieve what ever he wanted, but to my utter dismay I discovered he had impregnated a 19-year-old girl.
I was cleaning up his house one morning when I discovered a new phone and a sim card, so I was kind of curious so I inserted the sim card into the phone.
Immediately I switched on the on the phone, several text messages came in and the first message I set my eyes on read thus: ‘I will not get rid of the pregnancy. You promised me you will love forever , and it is against my religion and tradition’.
Before I could say jack, the phone rang. I answered the call because it was the same number that sent the text message, and it was a lady’s voice. Immediately she had my voice, she warned me to steer clear of her man. I could not say anything, but imagining the voice I heard, she should be 19 or early 20s. When he got back from work I confronted him.
He tried to deny it not until I showed him the phone. The look on his face really showed he never believed I would find out. He begged me to forgive him, that he didn’t know what came over him, that he was going to take care of the situation. I tried forgiven him and lived with it until I also discovered there was another lady he was seeing who seemed to be his colleague.
There were so many more things he did that I can’t mention here. So I have thought to myself I have to make a decision, because even though I love him so much that I cant just let him go, I just have to quit because I can’t trust him anymore and there is no true love without trust. I am 27 years of age, still very much good looking without exaggeration.
I thought he would be content with me, but he has shown that no matter what you do for a man, he can never be loyal to one woman. Irene Advice: Please dear readers mail your comments, reactions or true love stories, quiz or personal experience u wish to share to this email: simonclar @yahoo.com
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