How to stop him from withdrawing & quickly bring him close again
When your partner starts acting weird and all all of a sudden, and you start to suffer in your relationship die to this act, its best you ask yourself what you are doing wrong. I’m not saying women are to blame for how a man acts but we actually hold the key to bringing him back to life and to be fun again. Trust me, I know how painful it feels because I’ve been there myself!
Maybe he’s stopped making plans in advance, or he’s telling you he’s confused, or he’s stopped initiating affection and now he’s telling you how busy and stressed out he is with work. We women can feel a shift in our partners energy and it instinctively makes us feel worried, anxious and insecure no matter how much we want to appear cool and confident.
It feels so frustrating and devastating when the love we once felt from him feels like it’s just drifting away and then we begin to ask ourselves “How could this be happening?” How can you get things back to the way they felt in the beginning, when you knew he was so into you? He was doing and saying all the right things and everything to make you feel so happy.
We believe if we can just talk to him and let him know how we feel and specifically how we feel about him, he would instinctively want to “fix” things to make us feel better and be compelled to come closer. This is exactly what doesn’t work to inspire a man to want to get close again. In fact, it has the opposite effect on him! It makes him feel pressure and the only thing he wants to do is run as far away as possible as fast as possible! Interesting, right??
What we instinctively want to do, actually pushes our man further away. When you learn how men and relationships really work and use the techniques I can teach you, you’ll get all the time, love, attention, affection, fun, passion and romance you’ve been longing for. You’ll get amazing results with your man.
If you don’t learn how men and relationships really work and you keep doing what you’ve been doing, you’ll keep finding yourself in the same painful situations over and over again wondering what went wrong, analyzing everything your man does and spending your precious time trying to figure out what he’s thinking and how to bring him back. Get What You Want From Your Man And Relationship by doing these
*Imagine your man’s right in front of you.
What do you want to do? If you’re anything like me, you want to reach out and touch him and talk to him…move closer.
*Stop yourself from moving towards him in any way.
Imagine making eye contact and smiling softly at him. Let him move towards you FIRST and close the “gap”. This looks like him physically moving towards you, calling you, texting you, making plans, and initiating affection.
When you allow some space between the two of you, if he is the man for you, he will instinctively and automatically come close. He’ll sense you’re a woman who values herself enough to not chase any man and simply requires a man to pursue her (without saying a word) – it creates a magnetic pull on him he can’t resist!
*Use specific words and phrases to compel him to come even closer.
When he starts coming close again, you can “give back” by letting him know it feels good to hear from him, or you feel happy to see him, or his soft kisses make you feel soft and warm, he’ll feel a connection he’s never felt with another woman. All it takes is practice talking in this new love language.
When we stop moving towards our man, we begin to worry he’ll think we’re not interested, we don’t care or we don’t love him – we can eliminate these fears by being soft, warm and inviting when he comes close.
Here’s What You Can Do Right Now To Become More Magnetic And Bring Him Closer: Right now, try to touch an object in front of you. It could be the table, a water glass, a fork, your phone or the fabric on the couch. How does it feel? Cold? Smooth? Hard? This gets you into the present moment where your man can connect with you. (A man can’t connect with us when we’re up in our heads, worrying, analyzing and trying to figure him out.) Now Imagine every cell in your body lighting up. Start with your feet, your legs, hips, belly, chest, face and up through your head. Each cell becoming lighter, brighter and sparkly! How does that feel? I begin feeling better immediately as I feel the tension leaving my body. This will instantly shift your vibe, making you more magnetic to your man.
Commit to seeing yourself as a woman who easily inspires her man to want to get as close as he possibly can by not doing anything or working hard to make it happen. Simply being a woman is magnetic to a masculine man. Your only job is to receive the love he has to give.
Now, anything we do or say that looks like moving towards our man – calling, texting, initiating, advising, asking him how he feels, being super sweet and understanding, or making things easy for him in any way, actually kills his attraction for us. What draws him towards us is allowing there to be space between us. Allowing, trusting, receiving and responding to your man is what creates and builds attraction for a man.
I believe this would go a long way for you..try it out and I would love to hear how this goes for you.
To our Happiness… Cheers.
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